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NTA and I think the issue here is that your dad’s mentality on his role in your emotional scarring is still skewed. As you said, growing up you were a Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt into a lot of “boy” things, to the point that your dad essentially considered you more like a son. Taking that into account, it’s possible that he views his own role in your trauma the Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt many men see it when it comes to other guys: the guys just sort of suck it up, process, and move on. So, in a way, he’s still not understanding that, while you are his daughter, you don’t mentally just accept it and move on like a guy. It sounds like he needs more individual therapy, honestly, if he doesn’t get that his still young daughter continues to reel and ache from his words and bullying during the Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt of her life, and that him siding with his daughters bullying has permanently shifted the relationship. He wants to “get back to normal” but doesn’t understand that “normal” doesn’t exist any more thanks to him being a complete and utter asshat for years and that forgiveness, if at all likely, won’t be forthcoming for a very, very long time, if ever. Strange how he can’t seem to get that. And the Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt He doesn’t even sound like he feels all that guilty about it considering he got upset that you still feel so raw about it.
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Probably a naive question… but in all of this, why cling to the Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt pronouns at all? I would think it makes more sense to try and remove blind stereotypes at this impersonal level (pronouns) associated with being one gender or the Winnie the Pooh sleeping I like to stay in Bed it’s too Peopley outside shirt having an effect on how you act or how you should be referred to or your abilities etc. Like, all people may be physically/anatomically male or female… like they may be tall/short, wide/skinny, black/white, any physical characteristics. But let’s call them all the same human pronouns (they/them) and then shift “masculinity” or “feminity” over to descriptive personality traits, like being athletic, or street smart, or funny, or a nick-name, or being able to speak a certain language(s) or being skilled at a certain thing(s). Bringing gender affiliation back in as a base characteristic that you need to know in order to address the person even as a pronoun just seems to add work and confusion.In other words, it seems overcomplicated (to me I guess) to continue to use “she/her” and “he/him” as pronouns, when in most cases we are using pronouns in the place of a name or other term exactly because we don’t know enough about the person or are looking for shorthand for some reason speaking or writing. If I don’t know much about the person or am looking for shorthand, why does it matter if I also label their gender affiliation correctly, when we could just have pronouns that mean “human”, or “person” or “dude” or “buddy”… I want to be able to talk to a person I don’t know well without having to know which gender they affiliate with, I just know they are a person and an equal in a given situation.