Step kids I completely understand but I’m a bit bothered about her excluding the adopted grandkids, especially in light of Crying Is A Free Action Shirt saying she felt her grandma’s actions were racist. Hopefully OP’s aunt uses some of her inheritance for her adopted kiddos. I’m also left wondering if the heirloom in question is being asked to be given to one of the aunt’s adopted kids since that’d make since. In can understand why OP would feel torn over it if so, especially if she felt the exclusion had to do with racist beliefs.I am not her grandma, so no I can’t explain her reasoning for excluding people. She had her reasons for dividing her things. Doesn’t mean I agree with her, but it’s her right to split things however she wanted. So to Grandma she had good reasons to do what she did to ensure her wishes were met. Frankly, I’m never going to agree to change someone’s will after the fact because people didn’t get what they wanted. It’s up to grandma or whomever is doing the leaving to decide that. Do I agree that’s it’s right to leave those people out, no. But we aren’t being asked if Grandma is an asshole here. And even if I don’t think it’s right, it’s also not my choice, not my will. I’d give the same advice for OP to keep her inheritance even if Grandma wasn’t an asshole. Grandma’s assholery has no bearing on my judgement.And I was also addressing step kids, not adopted kids which you know since you read and pulled quotes out of context.
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Yea I can see wanting to give the heirloom to oldest bio granddaughter, but excluding adopted children is an AH thing to do. Also, leaving something to half brother on mom’s side, as it’s dad’s mom’s will, seems strange depending on timing, but how half brother and stepsiblings fit in is unclear.I’m assuming Grandma would have left the item to OPs aunt being her eldest daughter but assumed then it would pass to adopted child when aunt died so she skipped Aunt and left to OP, but who knows? Maybe she drew from a hat.Not my will, not my things. Doesn’t really matter if Grandma was an asshole in dividing things. That’s how she divided them and OP is not an asshole if she decides to honor grandma’s wishes and keep them.seems that grandma didn’t pass down to OP’s aunt because it would have gone to oldest granddaughter so grandma bypassed Crying Is A Free Action Shirt Also, from the way OP explained relationship with stepsiblings, they are not “current” stepsiblings as OP’s dad and stepsiblings’ mom divorced, but still emotionally involved in their life. Idk I can see why grandma didn’t include them, especially since both their parents are alive. Still kinda confused on why half-brother on mom’s side would be included.
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