Yea OP said that the heirloom should have been passed to aunt, but grandma kept it and bypassed to will it to OP since aunt would have given Cousins Make The Best Friends Shirt oldest granddaughter.And what this family is doing is why people should put ALL inheritances into trust funds for those under 18. People should not decide to redistribute items/money based on their own personal feelings and beliefs. They are basically re-writing grandma’s will.I feel that posts like this always swing to one extreme or the other, have seen plenty of posts with people overwhelmingly say to give the heirloom to who should have gotten it or to divide up so the biracial grandkids get equal shares despite grandparents bigotry.Based on this sub purpose, I enjoy calling people out for being an AH, but the grandmothers status is not really under consideration. We’re just trying to figure out if OP is an AH or not, and I say no, especially since OP is dealing with a stepsister, not an adopted sister.She does mention that the step sibs have money coming in from her mom, so yeah. Step sib has 2 families to draw from, OP has one. It does make a difference. (My kids, because of divorce, had 4 sets of grandparents and a LOT of great grandparents. They got so many xmas gifts we cut back and only ever got them 1 from my husband and I!)Blood is thicker than water. Maybe the grandmother didn’t like situation that resulted in 5 strangers becoming family? Maybe the grandmother didn’t like the kids? The grandmother is dead so no one will ever know the reasons behind her decision.
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This, and I’d your step sisters maternal grandmother leaves her $20k, is she going to be forced to split it with you? Doubtful. It wasn’t your choice who got what, you have debt to pay. Cousins Make The Best Friends Shirt is still a minor. I would tell them sorry but no, grandma left me these things and I need it for my stuff. If her grandma leaves her money, I’m not going to get anything.grandma probably didn’t give anything to the step/adopted gkids because she didn’t see them as family. OP isn’t obligated to split up her inheritance, but the relatives wanting all of the younger generation to accept each other is a thing of beauty. OP should just talk to her parents about her feelings and bring up her existing debt and the help it would give.OP also updated her post without noting it’s an edit. That comment that you shared was not in her original post. Her original post is copied and pasted automatically in the thread and says nothing about her grandma being racist.I also said NTA because I think grandma was a little bit of an asshole for putting them in this position. I’ll stick with that given grandma is now also a racist. She’s definitely an asshole.I also don’t think they should just be sharing money with kids that didn’t receive anything and saying Grandma left you this so the kids go forward in life thinking of their wonderful grandmother who left them money. They should be fully telling the kids Grandma was a racist if they are going to correct it behind their backs.
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