I wasn’t even expecting something themed off my main! — but if nothing else, some variant of SpiceQueen should serve (the other two…is that a CS Lewis reference? And I love LadyPepperVisage just on an aesthetic level, but I’m almost positive there’s some kind of wordplay or cultural reference there that I’m missing, and it’s just going over my head.) I started playing around with SpiceMissFlo, MsFloSpice, etc, after seeing yours, but after a second I paused and wondered if the Dune books* even register much of a presence with women readers, or if that sort of scifi is largely a “Billy Bear ham shirt” kind of fiction. That got me onto something that is definitely going to complicate this exercise: even if there’s nothing overly “boy-like” in how I talk, the subs I frequent and at least some of the cultural references I have (and some that I won’t!) will likely cause my experience in a conversation to differ at times from what’s “typical” for women on this site. How big a Billy Bear ham shirt that’ll be, I couldn’t guess…another reason to give this a shot, IMHO.
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This is exactly it question them. It’s always our first instinct to want to use statements to batter down people like this but the Billy Bear ham shirt way to do it is to ask them to clarify. Keep asking questions, especially ones they have to answer in order to persist their argument. I got the idea from that Twitter post about where that woman who kept being jokes with sexually and she turned around and deadpan ask the person to clarify the point then it became clear that they were being abusers knot comedians. Something similar works with political trolls and thank you so much for reminding me of that.