NTA but it seems your dad was oblivious to the Beer Girl Moon art shirt his words had on you. While not good at all, when you finally told the truth about what has been going on he left her and you both went to therapy. Your dad actually does have your back and is trying to make things right. He can’t change the past but I hope you realize that your dad chose you. I really hope you’ll be able to move past it and develop a deeper and loving relationship with your father. So many kids don’t get parents that would not only choose them and leave their partner but Beer Girl Moon art shirt go into therapy. You are quite fortunate. Maybe what you both need are better boundaries. Explain to him that you’re not able to joke about the Beer Girl Moon art shirt and you might never be and for the time being – it would be best for him to not bring it up.
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Couple things here. Your two trans friends do not represent the whole community. Many of us will never be able to pass for medical or Beer Girl Moon art shirt. Many of us are nonbinary. Many of us don’t care about passing. Many of us are happy being visibly trans and are proud of Beer Girl Moon art shirt. Not every trans person’s goal is the Beer Girl Moon art shirt. It isn’t virtue signaling. Cisgender people sharing their pronouns includes trans people and lets us know it’s safe to be out as trans around them. It’s caring. Regarding the comparison to disabled people, I do think it’s actually a good comparison. There are a lot of disabled people who just want to go about their day left alone. But there are others of us who want to be seen and heard as disabled. We want people to recognize the ableism in our society and our struggles and how much harm is done to us. We want more accessibility everywhere. And believing that all disabled people fall under that first category is very similar to thinking all trans people fall under the category of passing and wanting to not be seen as trans. I have to draw attention to my disability or I will never receive any of the accessibility tools I need because clearly “I’m doing okay without them”. I have to share my pronouns or people will decide they aren’t important to me and so they don’t need to care. Largely unrelated to the Beer Girl Moon art shirt, but something I find worth saying as I’m disabled myself. A majority of the disabled community prefer to just be called “disabled” over “handicapped” now. I’m not sure how it was years ago, but as long as I’ve been disabled, the overall community has used the term disabled over handicapped. (Please understand that I don’t say this out of judgement. I’m aware most people that use the term are doing it good naturedly, which is the only reason why I say this.)